fed up with procrastination? have you tried these suggestions?
- replace, “how am i going to finish this?” with “what small step can i start on right now?”
- ask yourself why you delay doing what you need or want to do? is it because you feel you ‘have to’ to do it? is it because you cannot clearly see the benefits? is it because you will need to move some twigs in the nest of your comfort zone? is it because want to wait until you feel like doing it? is it because someone else would do it better?
- be aware that you don’t procrastinate in every area of your life. even the worst procrastinators have areas where they never procrastinate
- plan ahead realistically
- make a daily “to do” list
- replace deprivation with guaranteed fun
- don’t start over-ambitiously
- list all the things you have to do and then prioritise the list
- create a vision of the result and be motivated by the vision of the outcome, not the thought of the process
- offer yourself a tangible reward for getting it done quickly
- imagine: how will you feel tomorrow if you haven’t done something?
- get yourself an appointment book
- don’t wait till you feel like doing it; the feeling will come when you start doing it
- replace “have to” with “want to”
- realize and accept that you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do
- do it, delegate it or dump it!
- devote no more than 15 minutes to a task, then decide whether to spend another 15 minutes on it.
- ask yourself: “what am i afraid of?”
- break tasks into manageable chunks
- realize that an imperfect job completed today is always superior to the perfect job delayed indefinitely
- decide what you can do and what is beyond your influence
- replace perfectionism with permission to be human
now let me be honest – i haven’t come up with these suggestions on my own; they’re a compilation, with only a few changes, of what steve pavlina has to say on the topic (enlightening, as always!), as well as webhome and seiyaku.
what do you think of these suggestions? have you tried any of them? have they worked? why or why not?
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